First,
I want to ask sorry for posting such post that will surely give negative image
on my international readers about my country India.
Only
people in India are not suffering this, the most number of rape cases happens
in US* and so many other countries too.
So,
taking example of India, I am asking questions to all human beings..
Do
you have a answer??
“Baba ki rani hoon, aankhon ka paani
hoon
Beh jaana hai jise do pal kahaani hoon
Amma ki bitiya hoon, aangan ki mitiya
hoon
Tuk tuk nihaare jo pardesi chithiya
hoon..”
Either it is any social network media,
any news publications, TV channels or any other e-news or M- news media
everywhere you will find the protests happening in different part of the
country and in different ways, demanding the justice to the Delhi rape victim
Damini.
All are raising their voice against the
anti raping laws and safety for girls in India (especially in Delhi).
The anger inside the individuals can be
seen clearly in their eyes.
After going through all the related articles,
posters, videos and incidents happening around, so many questions are popping up
into my mind searching for answers. But not getting that...!!
Is there any decrease in the number of rape cases (I am not
discussing about the records with police) in India or Delhi??
In a
week or two, again, there were cases, the victims were of age 42, and a girl
aged 3 years who even do not know the meaning of rape.
In
the last week of 2012’Dec, two cases got the place in the newspaper of Bangalore.
One a 8-year-old girl and another around 17 years.
A schoolgirl
in Delhi was raped on the new year eve.
As
per a news channel, there were 16 cases in 48 hours in major cities of India.
There
are numbers of cases that are not in any records.
·
The attitude and the behaviour of the (so called) society is
right??
When
the 8-year-old Muslim girl has been raped in Bangalore, the local community
made the decision of getting her married to the rapist. Moreover, the girl’s
father refused, the life of father is in danger now. Twice some people attacked
him.
She was
not allowed to attend her school.
More
than the rapist, the (cruel) society hurts the victim and kills her every
second in different ways.
In
the name of consoling, they will remind here every moment about the incident as
if she had made a sin, wherever she goes.
They
make life of victim until the time she is alive and the worst hell of her
family after that.
·
What about the married women being raped ever night??
In
the name of “It is right of a husband”, even family do not support the victim.
Why
it is like the birth right of men to kill the daughters (in name of honour
killing), killing and burning the daughters-in-laws and terrifying the wives
throughout their married life.
Even
now there are so many wives who are just meant to be a sex partner ( not even
partner, she is being used as a toy), delivering children and working as a maid
of the house. At least maid is getting paid and can express her feelings and
anger. But these wives are not suppose to say a single word.
·
The laws maker and laws keeper will ensure the girls being
safe??
What
is the reason Girls or girls family do not prefer to file a complaint against
any case happens like rape, molesting, or any crime with females?
There
may be so many different reasons, and one of them is that people feels them
self more unsafe from the laws keeper.
Few
years back it happened in our incredible India that a rape victim went to the police
station to file the complain and ask for the justice. She got the instant justice
there. She was gang-raped again in the police station by all those police men.
·
Why all teachings to daughters not to the sons??
I have never seen a family telling their son that they
should behave well with the girls and should protect them from any danger. The
girl is either his sister or anyone else’s.
All the time family teaches the daughter of the house to be
safe and take precautions.
There are so
many other questions, but...
..There is no
conclusion of all these discussion. Not being a girl, but being a HUMAN BEING,
I am still looking for the answers for all the questions. Do our
responsibilities end up with supporting the protests and making laws? Of course
not,, and the crime too won’t stop here......!!
~ Swati Kumari "swatz"
teri
meri kahani
